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Family of Vicki Soto, Teacher Who Died for Students, Numb but Coping

'At this point they are still numb from what happened,' says a member of the family’s church who visited the Sotos on Saturday at their Stratford home.

The family of Victoria "Vicki" Soto -- the Newtown teacher and Stratford High grad who died so that her students could live -- is numb but coping knowing that Vicki's selflessness saved many young lives, says a member of the family’s church.

"It's one thing that's helping them cope with the situation -- that she went to extraordinary means to protect her children and ended up giving her life," said Ken Gardner, a member of Lordship Community Church who visited the Stratford family Saturday.

Upon hearing the first rounds of gunfire in an adjacent classroom, the 27-year-old teacher scrambled to hide her first-grade students, 15 or 16 kids, before the gunman made his way to her room, a source told the Hartford Courant.

After entering the room, the shooter confronted and killed Soto but the students were saved because the gunman did not see them in the room, the source told the newspaper.

Gardner said the family is still numb but national news of Vicki's courage is giving them strength.

Vicki was the eldest of four siblings. She is survived by her parents, Donna and Carlos, Sr.; two sisters, Jillian and Carlee; and one brother, Carlos.

HOW YOU CAN HELP THE SOTOS

Gardner, as treasurer of the Lordship Community Church, has established a fund to assist the Soto family with funeral expenses.

Donations can be made to Lordship Community Church, Soto Fund, 179 Prospect Drive, Stratford, CT 06615. The church can be reached at 203.377.6568.

Lenn Libby December 15, 2012 at 08:19 pm
My name is lenn libby. i am the owner of Pro Line Sports on 171 Bruce Ave. Stratford.
I wanted to do something in light of the tragedy. All day i have been promoting a t-shirt drive to raise money for the victims. i designed a shirt which can be seen on my facebook page (pro line sports and design). i am donating all proceeds to funds that are set up and plan on a substantial donation to the Soto family. if the word could be spread , i am willing to do the work. The tee shirts will be sold for 10.00. retail. I have groups that are in the process of ordering in bulk and i am selling them at cost. That way people can donate in their own group names. I can be reached anytime at 2034140920 and at lenn@prolinetees.com
Darlene Puccilli Voight December 15, 2012 at 08:25 pm
what a nice idea, i am a former stratford resident and my son went to stratford high with Victoria Soto, i wanted to do something to help, and saw that you were doing the T-Shirts,
Danisha December 15, 2012 at 08:42 pm
What a great idea! I distribute BeautiControl products and I am also a teacher. Whoever buys a BrownSugar perfume. $15 will be donated out of the $30 it costs. It will be shipped to every state.
danishabeauticontrol@gmail.com My web page is www.beautipage.com/danisharivera
uncorrectedvision December 15, 2012 at 11:12 pm
The story of this courageous young woman and the other adults who threw themselves into the line of fire with little regard for their own lives is sweeping the country. Their courage and self sacrifice reveal the soaring heights of human character when confronted with palpable evil. This touches all our hearts. I, for one, will tell their story, Victoria's story over and over. She was as courageous as any soldier on any battle field hope he would be, God Bless You.
David Yew Kam December 16, 2012 at 04:33 pm
We can never understand what happend on that day,
BUT we know Vicki did the most unselfish and heroic act - namely, to GIVE of HERSELF to protect those under her care! Not many in other countries would do that! She's truly an extraordinary human being, well taught by good parents, her church and her loving community! David Kam, Perth, Western Australia.
David Lake December 16, 2012 at 09:32 pm
There are certainly others that are equally deserving, but there is a petition to award Vicki Soto with the Presidential Medal of Freedom. Please sign and emphasize the good that was displayed that day: http://wh.gov/RsMy
GANOUNI December 24, 2012 at 09:54 pm
it is said that the real effective teaching starts only when the teacher gets to love his students. this heroic woman fully understands the core meaning of student's love. our hearts go out to her family. from MOROCCO we send our condolence
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